Relationship
Hi all or anyone who's reading , it's been awhile during these past years as I hit my 30s i start to ponder on many things are we as human made from the relationships we had with others or we are part of the relationship and the bond that made or others , no matter how we look at it , we as human are part of a social creature , i have been through a period of time with minimal social interaction and found that solitude is indeed quite a bliss but recently had been in a relationship & had also ended in a nice grateful note~ it made me wonder has it changed a part of me through the relationship that i have been with , have i unconsciously absorb a part of the character & the personality that I shared a relationship with 🤔🤔.
I do come to a realization that we do indeed absorb a part of the essence of the people we share a bond with no matter , a partner , family , siblings , parents , friends , colleagues & community member . As the cumulation of various colorful characters influences us we do finally formed an unique individuality that offers a different opinion & character that presents to this world. After been in & out of a 2 year relationship , It does taught me a lot & humble me by being more empathetic with others that they struggled and tried their best by putting their best foot forward despite the circumstances that they faced either placed upon them or choose freely by them.
This lead to a wonderful discovery that maybe probably there's a possibility that someone out there in this world there is an imperfect soul partner that would pair up with us to be perfectly imperfection & that's what makes the imperfection an unique perfection that god's gift of us in this world.
Since we are a social creature communication is unavoidable , but it drains or charges someone up based on their introversion & extroversion nature , I sometimes wonder how many individuals out there in this vast world is perfectly fine living in solitude without a partner and maybe just being a part of contributing member of the society has already contributed and impacted the society & community we live in , in its own way.
I would end my note with this last phrase of appreciation & unyielding flow of gratitude to my first relationship a hidden girlfriend that goes by the name of Wimonshipret Phiraya , , i offer my thanks to you & may you find the joy & happiness you seek & may your life be peaceful despite the chaos you have chosen for yourself to provide for your loved ones. May God's presence be with you & guide you in spite of the constant situation of lacking , you have shown me the true spirit of gratefulness & thankfulness & I hope i impart in you the spirit of bravery & creative resilience despite our sweet beginning and grateful ending. 🙏🙏
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